April 12, 2026
HMT Empire Windrush (Hired Military Transport) ship, 1948, Caribbean migrants to London. By the Royal Navy official Royal Navy official photographer. Ministry of Defence Foxhill Collection of Ship Photographs.

Reflect, rather than reload

Reflect on the trigger, rather than becoming defensive or lashing out, ready to reload your weapon.
April 9, 2026
Gorgeous, giant banyan tree in Sri Lanka, in safari lands. The leaves are green and bountiful, like a warming bush. Looks like the tree of life.

It’s elemental

When you’re in your head making up stories, grounding can take you back to the present moment.
March 26, 2026
Photo of a brick wall. Earth reds, browns, and cream,

Your boundary line

Someone who keeps on excessive weight might be protecting themselves from something.
March 22, 2026
A man is swimming in a blue pool, with goggles on. His arms are stretched out wide, in the middle of a butterfly stroke.

How you react is yours

As difficult as it can be to choose a different direction than what you have always known.
February 27, 2026
A rectangle shape, cut in half diagonally. The top half is pink. The bottom half is blue. Across the diagonal are five yellow stars lined up.

Calling you out

Does appeasement ever really help? Maybe momentarily, but most likely the appeaser becomes resentful.
February 23, 2026
A whitish/yellowish figure of a test dummy, with the skin at the top part of his head gone, as if ready for brain surgery. Figure had almond-shaped eyes and a red mouth, with his left her jutting out. German words labeled on different sections of the brain.

You become what you see

My story was men in pickup trucks harm people like me - starts with animosity from the jump.
January 26, 2026
The different stages of a butterfly, from three stages of cocoons, to an orange and black butterfly. All hangin on a post or upside down on a table.

And I’m feeling good

Even if we wanted to, we might not realize what was putting us in that not-so-positive position in the first place.
January 26, 2026
A man in a blue and white poncho, with a black horse, in a field of light-colored grain. The hills are in the background. Man has a long, black mustache.

Judgment: How low can you go?

If you live in judgment and blame in the past, you will just attract more of that because that’s your focus.
January 26, 2026
Angry female tennis player in front of flood light. Looks like a storm beyond her. She's in a yellow shirt, with a long, dirty blonde ponytail.

Tennis anger hack

Anger – we all encounter it on the court. Whether it’s you, your partner, or opponent, tennis is not always the polite society game in floor-length dresses and tea.
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